Give them time to think. Don’t demand instant answers.
Don’t interrupt them
Give them advanced notice of expected changes in their lives
Give them a 15 minute warnings to finish whatever they are doing before calling them to dinner or moving on to the next activity
Reprimand them privately
Teach them new skills privately rather than in public
Enable them to find one best friend who has similar interests and ability; encourage this relationship even if the friend moves on.
Do not push them to make lots of friends.
Respect their introversion. Don’t try to remake them into extraverts.
“i find myself getting to work, logging into the system and then I load up Minecraft then an hour or so later oops maybe I should do some work. I will literally put people on hold and when creepers are spotted “blah blah blah OH shit creeper please hold” . I’ve been written up cause a customer heard me say “I’m gonna kill you, you FN pig now move”.”
Feeling like crap. No fun at all , hate it when this happends.
Reason why i am feeling like crap is prolly because of that i’m not doing what i want at the pace I think it should go. feeling frusterated about it , now angry and annoyed and blogging about it.
This is just a bloody make shift solution to calm me down and i know it.
Hating this , alot.
Most annoying thing is I don’t see why this having a life and a goal is relevant to life.
in the end we are going to die and that’s just is. only reason why we exist is to evolve our race and why is it so that millions of people urge to have a “goal” is to participate and accelerate the evolving progress.
By having a goal you face hardships wich lead to knowledge wisdom and skill. That in itself is the true purpose of a goal, not what you achieved but what you gained.
and ofcource to share that knowledge , wisdom and skill we have pride ,the urge to talk to people.
becuase that way we pass down our knowledge. eventually we are evolving into another stage of the human evolution.
All these proccesses are pretty natural and would be weird if it didint happen. Though i be young of age and already knowing this , it is in conflict with my body and emotion. i urge to do something but i am really hard to motivate.
I already have seen much conflict and expierence or else I wouldent be typing this piece of text.
Frustrated as I am I want to get rid of this feeling and do something.
Depressed you might say , yes would be most likely.
But i do laugh enjoy my day have a girlfriend wich i love. aside this nagging feeling i’m feeling pretty much fine. It saddens me to type this when i reread piece of what i just wrote , althoug very few will read this , I’m still blogging this. It’s just annoying , knowing you can’t do anything about it.
you could say just try to ignore it but I cant.
At least not untill i’m trully motivated for something.
I lack motivation and dicipline , I bloody hate it yet can’t seem to do something properly about it in the pace I want it to go. slowly yes , but to slow
it’ll take me another couple years to get to the point where i want to be. and then i still need to get started. (with work and so forth , this is just about my mental state of being)
Bleh , I’m finishing this for now , somewhat satisfied with this for now , as it is a makeshift solution. emotions calmed down but i dont think I’ll be able to sleep , ot i could play some music and sleep.. maybe thats better…
these days i’ve been just way to busy to actually do something. quite tired at this point.
Not that it is a problem , just an annoyance. Either way , it’ll be a while before i’m back up to date with my regular shedule. in two weeks it would be. (then i have a week vacation so that is a good thing.
Either way , need to plan the weekend for the convention (as I am the person who asked everyone to go) , do my tasks for school and so forth.
It isisn’t THAT much but it with me being a bit tired from continious working it isin’t always easy as I would want it to be.
